As an anti-racist white cisgendered feminist activist, I've been reading the legitimate criticisms from folks of the SlutWalk movement as an exclusive movement that privileges certain experiences over others and have been thinking a lot about what it means to be an ally, to make sure our event is a comfortable space for as many folks as possible, and how not to perpetuate the oppressive structures that have often characterized white-led feminist movements in the past.
I believe firmly that examining privilege, owning privilege, understanding how it manifests itselves in our lives and not looking away from it is incredibly important to being an ally. A really good article that I read and identify with is this one (http://www.dailykos.com/story/2011/05/22/957012/-White-Privilege-Diary-Series-#1White-Feminist-Privilege-in-Organizations) from Hepshiba's Pad. Another thing that Hepshiba mentions and that I find crucial is the idea of stepping back and listening - instead of bulldozing over folks with your ideas of what it means to be a good ally, listen to and ask folks what they need from you and what you can do to help. Sometimes, it means stepping up. Sometimes, it means stepping back. We have no way of knowing unless we ask, listen, and engage. It's not easy to look your privilege in the face, but it is entirely necessary.
We mentioned who we are and some of the ways we're reaching out in our blog post on inclusivity and diversity just to provide some background, because these goals are important to us. It was in no way meant to be a defensive post that denied the reality of a world in which oppression manifests in complicated ways.
As mentioned in our previous blog entry on the word 'slut,', we as organizers have jettisoned the idea of reclaiming 'slut' as an organizing goal as it is simply too problematic for so many people (I personally find it a goal that doesn't work for me, though it may work for some others on the organizing team) - as some of the thoughtful criticisms have mentioned, reclamation is rooted in certain experiences and certain privileges (being comfortable enough to apply that word to yourself without fear of reprisal or violence, for instance). Instead, I see the contentious name of our event - SlutWalk - as a name that both joins us to work being done by other organizers (including the original Toronto organizers) and gets at the heart of how sexual double standards and rape culture are connected (for instance, how perceived sexual availability is used to invalidate allegations of sexual assault). Going forward we may or may not keep the name, but since it's on our permit and our event's only ten days away I feel as though interrogating the name and examining its implications is a useful thing to do in the meantime.
While we are joined to the other SlutWalks by our goal of ending rape culture and looking at interpersonal violence through a lens that values and understands the great variations in human sexuality and the ownership of folks over their own consensual sexual decisions, we are, as mentioned previously in the blog, organizing on our own, as all the SlutWalks do, and we may have different priorities and ways of getting to that end goal than the other SlutWalks. And we need and value your input! There are only five of us on the organizing team, and we in no way want to be the figureheads of a movement (what kind of egalitarian movement has figureheads, anyway? We're all leaders!)
I actually see SlutWalks not as a movement in and of themselves, but as one small piece of a large movement that's been going on for a very long time in many different forms - in protests, in nonprofit site-centered provision of direct services, in community organizing, and so forth. We have an opportunity because of the media attention and energy centered around the SlutWalks to bring folks together, to talk about what the movement to end rape culture will look like going forward, and that's one of the major things I signed on to organize around. We're looking into the idea of hosting a forum of some kind after the event on June 4, and we need your help! We want to know what you want that forum to look like, concerns you want to specifically address, and whether anyone would be interested in moderating and organizing that forum. Email us at slutwalkchicago@gmail.com with your thoughts!
With solidarity and love,
Jessica
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