Hi, everyone. This is Jessica Skolnik from the organizing team.

As an anti-racist white cisgendered feminist activist, I've been reading the legitimate criticisms from folks of the SlutWalk movement as an exclusive movement that privileges certain experiences over others and have been thinking a lot about what it means to be an ally, to make sure our event is a comfortable space for as many folks as possible, and how not to perpetuate the oppressive structures that have often characterized white-led feminist movements in the past. 

I believe firmly that examining privilege, owning privilege, understanding how it manifests itselves in our lives and not looking away from it is incredibly important to being an ally. A really good article that I read and identify with is this one (http://www.dailykos.com/story/2011/05/22/957012/-White-Privilege-Diary-Series-#1White-Feminist-Privilege-in-Organizations) from Hepshiba's Pad. Another thing that Hepshiba mentions and that I find crucial is the idea of stepping back and listening - instead of bulldozing over folks with your ideas of what it means to be a good ally, listen to and ask folks what they need from you and what you can do to help. Sometimes, it means stepping up. Sometimes, it means stepping back. We have no way of knowing unless we ask, listen, and engage. It's not easy to look your privilege in the face, but it is entirely necessary.

We mentioned who we are and some of the ways we're reaching out in our blog post on inclusivity and diversity just to provide some background, because these goals are important to us. It was in no way meant to be a defensive post that denied the reality of a world in which oppression manifests in complicated ways. 

As mentioned in our previous blog entry on the word 'slut,', we as organizers have jettisoned the idea of reclaiming 'slut' as an organizing goal as it is simply too problematic for so many people (I personally find it a goal that doesn't work for me, though it may work for some others on the organizing team) - as some of the thoughtful criticisms have mentioned, reclamation is rooted in certain experiences and certain privileges (being comfortable enough to apply that word to yourself without fear of reprisal or violence, for instance). Instead, I see the contentious name of our event - SlutWalk - as a name that both joins us to work being done by other organizers (including the original Toronto organizers) and gets at the heart of how sexual double standards and rape culture are connected (for instance, how perceived sexual availability is used to invalidate allegations of sexual assault). Going forward we may or may not keep the name, but since it's on our permit and our event's only ten days away I feel as though interrogating the name and examining its implications is a useful thing to do in the meantime.

While we are joined to the other SlutWalks by our goal of ending rape culture and looking at interpersonal violence through a lens that values and understands the great variations in human sexuality and the ownership of folks over their own consensual sexual decisions, we are, as mentioned previously in the blog, organizing on our own, as all the SlutWalks do, and we may have different priorities and ways of getting to that end goal than the other SlutWalks.  And we need and value your input! There are only five of us on the organizing team, and we in no way want to be the figureheads of a movement (what kind of egalitarian movement has figureheads, anyway? We're all leaders!)

I actually see SlutWalks not as a movement in and of themselves, but as one small piece of a large movement that's been going on for a very long time in many different forms - in protests, in nonprofit site-centered provision of direct services, in community organizing, and so forth. We have an opportunity because of the media attention and energy centered around the SlutWalks to bring folks together, to talk about what the movement to end rape culture will look like going forward, and that's one of the major things I signed on to organize around. We're looking into the idea of hosting a forum of some kind after the event on June 4, and we need your help! We want to know what you want that forum to look like, concerns you want to specifically address, and whether anyone would be interested in moderating and organizing that forum. Email us at slutwalkchicago@gmail.com with your thoughts! 

With solidarity and love,
Jessica
 


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Helen Redmond
05/25/2011 12:30

How do you define "rape culture?"

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Jessica Skolnik
05/25/2011 12:55

Helen - this is a great starting point for defining and talking about rape culture, and is the definition I work from:
http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/10/rape-culture-101.html

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queerio
05/25/2011 21:09

Well you asked for feedback, so here's mine: I think you're over-thinking this a bit, I'd recommend relaxing and having fun. You sound like you're spending way too much time in college classes and not enough time on the street, and that won't help you to keep the event diverse or preach beyond the choir. In particular I don't think getting all hung up on white guilt makes things more welcoming for people of other races. If they join, great, if not, it doesn't mean you're racist- could be a cultural difference, effects of segregation, economics, etc. Also, I personally know a lot of people who use the word "slut" in a positive sense, as I do, and if you're not comfortable with that that's okay, but policing other people's language has never increased tolerance. The SlutWalk, as I understand it, was designed to address the victim-blaming attitude about rape, bringing rape to the forefront (literally into the streets) and also the use of fear of rape to limit women's freedoms (dress, agency). I don't think there is a "rape culture" and I don't think getting unrealistically hysterical about rape and threatening people's freedom of expression (like being anti-porn, as I've seen some feminists do) of others helps any movement. Rape is horrible and you will never end it- not unlike murder, but you don't say we have a "murder culture", though you could make that argument. The rape culture argument basically lumps together a lot of different things that are bad about how people handle rape- mostly because they fear it. Better to have a small, attainable, realistic goal- inspire people to rethink their assumption that women are responsible for preventing such violence. It's good that you want to stay humble, and listening to people's imput will help- it will also help if you remember that you're not figureheads of a movement- the women who designed the first slutwalk are the figureheads, you guys are doing a great thing organizing a march, please don't fuck it up by getting your heads up your asses. Be bold, be welcoming, and have fun and you'll do fine! Thanks and good luck!

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queerio
05/25/2011 21:19

yikes, re-reading this I see a lot of things that could be taken the wrong way, in particular saying not to get "all hysterical" about rape, what I meant by that is not that you shouldn't be upset about rape itself, but that you shouldn't get so wrapped up in the cause that you forget that people do almost universally (except for really evil twisted fucks) really really hate and fear rape. Which is the problem- our fear of rape has caused us to put up blinders to the fact that we CAN'T prevent people from raping- sure, we can lock 'em up, we can try to figure out what creates a rapist and change those things, etc- but crazy evil people will do crazy evil things forever. Because we know this, we tell women, the sane party, that it's their fault, maybe if they wore a burka they'd be safe- but that's wrong too, rapists rape burka-wearing women, and men. Women get raped in broad daylight, women get raped by their bosses, men get raped by their teachers- the truth is, we can't prevent it. That's (at least mostly) the point of the slut walk- not to try and prevent or stop rape, but to address the fact that we shouldn't take away women's freedoms because we fear rape. And as a secondary goal, addressing how we should re-examine our attempts to prevent rape is great, but that's gonna take more than a march, no?
to reiterate another point, don't be a feminist- be a gender egalitarian. you'll get way more men & genderqueers on your side that way.

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queerio
05/25/2011 21:26

...anyway much love and respect for what you're doing, and all the support in the world! I'll see you there!

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Jessica Skolnik
05/26/2011 09:24

Thanks for your feedback & support & love & respect!
A few clarifications/explanations:
- What's funny is that I actually abandoned grad school for nonprofit work and organizing over 6 years ago, but I still organize my thoughts with the tools critical race/class/gender theory and history-from-the-ground-up gave me. I try to write accessibly, but I know I can get dense and overly theoretical sometimes. Thanks for the reminder!
- I don't at all want to judge or police anyone else for reclaiming 'slut' for themselves in a positive manner. It's not my thing, but it works for others! We're not organizing around the reclamation of 'slut,' but that doesn't mean we don't support those who want to do so for themselves. The thing is that there are a lot of background issues and histories that inform both 'slut' and the reasons why someone would choose to reclaim it, choose not to reclaim it or CAN'T reclaim it. It's just too personal a goal for us to organize around, but that doesn't mean it isn't a legitimate choice for some.
- I believe that we absolutely live in a culture that often excuses rape, doesn't have healthy and popular understanding of what consent means and looks like, and supports victim-blaming through encounters with the legal system, medical system, and wider culture. That's been my experience as a survivor and there are a lot of studies out there on similar experiences. Here are some stats with citations: http://www.oneinfourusa.org/statistics.php
Not all rapists are "crazy evil" people, even if the act itself is horrific. Many sexual assault prevention programs focus on consent training because it's such an effective tool for understanding and preventing acquaintance rape (and supporting the survivor after the fact if it happens).
- Feminism is gender egalitarianism! Same thing. :)
- Just because I think recognizing privilege is important doesn't mean I have white guilt. Guilt is pointless, especially guilt over something you have no real control over. I have privilege not because I claim it, but because society grants it to me - and I also actively work toward a society in which I don't have that privilege, even though I doubt that'll happen in my lifetime. And I think it's important to understand all views and reach out to all sorts of folks, but also to understand that your event might not be for everyone as much as you'd like it to be. All we can do is be conscientious, make sure we're reaching out to lots of different communities, start and continue dialogues and work toward greater understanding. We'd never want to try to force someone to attend something that wasn't their bag, but we want to make this a comfortable event for anyone interested in attending.
- I was making the point in my note that we're NOT figureheads because there has been a lot of media out there that lumps all of the SW organizers into this weird monolith and labels us as movement leaders. We're not! We don't want to be! We're just organizers of an event and regular folks involved in a larger movement. And I was trying to make the point as well that SW is itself part of a larger movement, not some unique thing that sprung out of nowhere.

Anyway, SWC is going to be a fun event as well as a coalition-building and educational event, and I'm looking forward to it. See you there!

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queerio
05/26/2011 11:20

Thanks for the thorough clarifying response! Good to be reminded that not all rapists are evil in particular, it's never helpful to think in black-in-whites like that. I see more now where you're coming from, it's good to know the organizers of this event have such a good understanding of all these intricate dynamics involved in a demonstration like this, good on you! Looking forward to it! ((hugs))

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Amynomene
05/31/2011 16:06

Really? You all really think that parading around in revealing clothing and calling yourselves sluts will make men re-think their behavior (and the behavior of their forefathers for the past 10,000 years)? Really?

You don't think the patriarchy is already aware of the double standard that "slut" implies (because it is a slur used unilaterally by men against women - and by misogynistic women against other women)? They invented the term. The problem is NOT the hypocrisy of the term slut. The problem is that women are, as a class, on a daily basis in every corner of the world, assaulted, raped and forced into coercive sexual encounters with men, as a class.

SlutWalk is a pitiful, hands-and-knees crawl for respect-crumbs of the patriarchy. Good luck with that.

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Jessica Skolnik
06/02/2011 13:56

Amynomene, we are not organizing around reclamation of the word. And I personally was never planning to wear revealing clothing, and I don't identify as a slut.

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Jessica Skolnik
06/02/2011 15:09

(But I do support everyone having body autonomy.)

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cripes
06/03/2011 23:07

I admit being a little confused how the public image of "slutwalk" will play in Peoria, or Garfield Park or Humboldt Park. They may get it at the college coffee shop, elsewhere, not so much. Hope it goes well, anyway.

Amynomene, as far as men coining the word slut, it's a little vague looking into the mists of time, but "Geoffrey Chaucer used the word sluttish (c.1386) to describe a slovenly man; however, later uses appear almost exclusively associated with women." Similar words appear in Dutch, German and Swedish dialects meaning "a dirty woman," indicating a common ancestor in Germanic languages

It is still used in England today to denote a slovenly person or habits.

Anyway, this does not of course minimize actual rape, victim blaming, or the appalling immunity police agents appear to enjoy from accountability in a series of high profile press stories. (tip of the iceberg, anyone?)

I think the point is that the gay community first, then others, appropriated the word with the intent to re-purpose it, much as black Americans have done before, rather successfully.

Finally, from personal experience I observe that it is women who more often use the term pejoratively against other women, reinforcing cultural stereotypes. Reminds me how infibrullation is performed by women upon their own daughters and granddaughters.

Kind of complicates the issue, doesn't it?

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Jessica Skolnik
06/06/2011 09:02

Cripes, thank you for your thoughtful commentary! We reached out to all sorts of different community organizations across the city, knowing the inherent issues in the concept and ready to engage in dialogue. Some folks pushed us further with critical thinking (we appreciate it!), some joined us, some said 'no thanks', some offered solidarity even though the event wasn't their cup of tea, and some helped us plan and reach out to others. Folks ended up showing up from lots of different neighborhoods and backgrounds on the actual day of the walk, and we had lots of wonderful critical and positive conversations, which we are excited to continue going forward. It was a great event and one that I was proud to be involved in.

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cripes
06/10/2011 23:31

Jessica: Yes, I see from the photos all different kinds of "folks" (that's an intentional barb at politicians like Obama who use it to death). Congratulations.

In any case, seeing the participation, even though I thought "slutwalk" was wide open for misunderstanding, maybe irony isn't dead after all! Unlike H.L. Mencken, perhaps I do underestimate the taste of the American public.

But seriously, where to go from here? Is this a one-off? Do you see future activities?



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M
06/27/2011 12:53

what a horrible idea. I support comfort and self respect. Walking around like a slut isn't going to change a damn thing.

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ladyeri
02/24/2013 00:11

I wish to respond with a friendly disagreement. When I first heard about the "Slutwalks" and the comment that prompted them, I was rather surprised. In all honesty, I felt astonished that anybody could question the comment(which makes perfect sense), especially in such a manner. I am a 18 year old girl in a Chicago suburb, near a busy bike trail well known for partying and creeps wandering and exposing themselves. I would never feel comfortable wearing revealing clothes or walking by myself around that trail. In an ideal world, people could do whatever they wished. But this is not an ideal world, and although things like racism change, human biology is startlingly set in stone. Rapists, especially those disturbed enough or drunk enough to rape, will always exist in a world where men are generally physically stronger than woman. Making a stand against rapists is a noble cause, but once a girl is raped, her world changes. Risking a girl's sanity in pursuit of changing the male race is a lost cause. I feel that the number of rapes would decrease if children, both boys and girls, were educated at an early age about the dignity of women, etc, and men were more closely monitored. But when dealing with people who are often mentally disturbed, ethics becomes a secondary issue to safety. You never know who might be dealing with an undiagnosed illness. Girls throughout time have attracted attention through "slutty", or revealing, clothing. Because men find women's bodies pleasurable, it is much easier for them to take a female more seriously if she is covered. This is not anti-woman. This is biology. Even the best guys have to work hard to avoid an attractive woman with low cleavage. In conclusion, by women feeling the need to express their "sluttiness" openly, or completely do away with the term, they risk consequences that in this world of ours will always exist. As youtube reviewer ADoseofBuckley said so eloquently, "Laws only stop honest people from committing crimes". So please accept my criticism with grace. I feel strongly about this, and I hope you respect, if disagree, with my opinions.

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